Whomever started that cougar and milf shit should die in a fire. So you decided to attack my divorced status? They haven't even gone on a date.
White picket fence dreams with him? Does that sound like any kind of healthy or happy way to approach a relationship? As long as he is mature enough for you then there is absolutely no problem with that. You go ahead and continue on with your tirade.
Definitely something that needs to be figured out before you plant your flag on this guy. In all cases, it was two people being attracted to each other, not two numbers. As long as you want it to work for the good of you both. This must worry you for some reason, long how but it shouldn't.
Not trying to be morbid, however, I have a friend at work that's going through this right now. She was lucky to be with him all this time. Just my tastes there, not a belief that it can't happen. You will learn your lesson the hard way.
It is more than ok, because women usually outlive men anyway. Are you sure that you want to delete this answer? Myself, and I am sure others on this thread would question his morals and values. Most people assume we are roughly the same age because we are!
Older women, because of their confidence and experience, also make better lovers. My fiance reminded me that we share the same cultural touch points. To celebrate, scan some cats or help fund Mefi!
A 25 year old woman dating a 22 year old guy
This is, to be blunt, complete sexist bullshit. Even moved in with him, and yes I objected. Hell, some of them actually think they own this forum and just because they must have an opinion any opinion on any subject at any time of the day by anyone!
Melissa, I think you see a guy, in the now, who is a great match. And maybe if I got to know them I would change my mind, but just from looking at them, I can appreciate a good looking year old, but I am just not attracted to them. Since you are asking, and given the words you chose, she is too old for you. View detailed profile Advanced or search site with. Does my fiance not respect me?
Maybe you are afraid to stand up to your father and telling strangers to go to hell is easier? In both relationships, I very much felt we were equals. It may work or not in the long run but showing them how responsible and mature you are in handling the situation be it a success or a failure might earn you some respect from your parents.
Three years is nothing in the grand scheme. We made a great couple, and were together for years as well. We dated for a couple of years. In that sense dating an older woman reflects well on you. But the fact that it concerns you and you have to ask this question says to me, pretty strongly, that you personally shouldn't date this woman.
- Two people, well met, who happened to have an age gap.
- As the bard said, love the one you're with.
- Five years doesn't rate as an age gap when you are an adult.
- And they had data to back up something women being awesome!
As long as the feelings are there then go for it. No, it can't possibly work but you're not going to stop moving forward just because a bunch of internet strangers tell you it's a horrible idea. He's not concerned about the difference at all.
22 year old man dating 34 year old woman
You sem very much so and smart. If you want to prove something to your father then this is it, prove to him how responsible you would be with your life and your relationship. So ask her out first, see how it goes, free serious and don't overthink the age thing. They are coming across as defensive.
It sounds like you don't respect this woman, or at least, the age difference is a deal breaker for you. How long have you been dating him? Most of the time we found out each others ages after we started dating and it just wasn't an issue for either of us. And your parents will hopefully see the same. And it wasn't because of our ages that it didn't work out.
Originally Posted by Sweet Like Sugar. As for this man you have an interest in. And she deletes her account and runs away.
This is only an issue if it's made into an issue. She needs to be dating someone more in her maturity bracket. You and I most likely have virtually identical life experiences and overall approaches to the world. That said, while it's normal to worry about it briefly, if you stick with these concerns, it might mean that there are some lingering insecurities.
- Personally though, if it was me in that situation, you would definitely have to go thru a few intial excercises for me before I would even consider the possibility.
- Just don't if not asking your self and your partner questions about the future.
- If you're uncomfortable with the age difference, don't date this person.
The age difference is just a number. Let people deal, it's not a big problem unless you make it a big problem. After your first post, I was gonna say well she seems in love, and it doesn't seem to be about his money, so sure why can't it work? It ended, and now she hangs her head in shame as it was a Daddy issue. Do not let people like this drag you down to their level.
Is It Okay For 26 Year Old Woman To Date A 23 Year Old Man
That age gap itself is fine. But please make sure she never sees this question or knows about your concerns because it would be really hurtful and if I were her it would be amble reason to not date you or to dump you if I was. Lifes lessons are learned via experience. It doesn't seem very mature to me to come online and ask a lot of strangers what you should do.
You need to pinpoint the problem and ask the question in such a way that it resolves any worries you might have. But even if it was, that doesn't mean it wouldn't have been worth it. Are you two happy with the relationship?